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Gratitude in Action: Car Chase

July 7, 2015

grateful car-smYou know how action movies usually include some kind of chase? Usually it’s one car chasing another through tight alleys or the turns of a parking garage. Depending on the period, the chase might launch itself on foot, on horseback, or through interstellar space by starship.

One of my yet-to-be-finished screenplays lays out a skateboard-and-bicycle chase.

Yesterday, my spiritual journey (and my career as Belly Queen) took on the flavor of an action film: Driving my red Honda Element, I chased a white Ford Explorer through the streets of Asheville.

I was on my way home when I noticed, and deciphered, the license plate on this vehicle in front of me. I so wanted to get a picture of it. One hand on the wheel, one hand rummaging in my purse for my smart phone, I more or less kept my eyes on the road. The Explorer kept pulling ahead and out of camera range. I passed the turnoff that would have taken me home and kept going, praying the traffic light at the top of the hill would be red.

The light was red, but the Explorer was turning right on the green arrow. I followed, hoping the next traffic light would be red. It was. I whipped out my camera and clicked just as the light turned green and the Explorer veered left onto the interstate. I followed, not sure that the snapshot I’d taken through my windshield had captured the plate.

Once on the interstate, the Explorer pulled out of sight. I took the next exit and went home.

grateful car-insetChecking the photo on my phone, there it was: IMGR8FLL

Thank you, synchronicity. Thank you, bestower of grace. Thank you, personalized alert system that messages me however it can.

Yes, gratitude. Yes, I’m grateful.

I’m currently in love with Barbara Fredrickson‘s book Positivity (Random House, 2009). Gratitude is one of ten positive emotions she champions. Along with joy, hope, interest, pride, serenity, amusement, awe, inspiration and love, the felt sense of gratitude leads to human flourishing — feeling “more alive, creative, and resilient” as she says.

The key to flourishing is embodying these positive emotions three times more frequently than negative emotions, which she identifies as various shades of anger, fear, contempt, and shame.

What do positive and negative emotions have to do with belly wisdom? How do positive emotions such as gratitude relate to deepening breath and awareness into our body’s center and energizing our hara?

My friend and Integral Bodywork originator Everett Ogawa says that, for him, lowering the breath into his body’s center leads him into a bigger circle of understanding. He recognizes how life is so much larger than any human can comprehend. In the presence of such enormity he’s thankful for whatever may be the span of his life, his tiny place in the great scheme of things. And he’s moved by compassion to devote his time to helping others. Deepening his breath, gratitude becomes a whole-being experience, a felt sense of the precious gift that is the body, that is life itself.

Witness Everett’s expression not only of gratitude but also of awe, inspiration, interest, serenity, and hope.

These and the other positive emotions that Fredrickson names are forces of attraction, connection, and bonding, linking us with others and with our essential selves.

In contrast, her roster of negative emotions are forces of separation, distancing us from others and from our essential selves. (James Joyce describes one of his characters: “Mr. Duffy lived a short distance from his body.”)

My hunch: If we need to get all bioscience about it (and I’m not sure we do), the negative, separating emotions follow from the cranial brain’s capacity for analytical thinking — a.k.a. sequential sorting and ranking and judging. The positive, unifying emotions follow from the gut brain’s capacity for simultaneous synthesizing and encompassing.

With all of psychology’s current fascination with neuroscience, the goings-on between the cranial brain and the rest of the body, I’m waiting for the day when these investigations expand to include the gut brain, the enteric nervous system.

[Be forewarned, this paragraph gets technical.] Cranial brain and gut brain communicate with each other through the tenth cranial nerve, the vagus nerve. The vagus nerve also connects cranial brain and heart. Current fascination with neuroscience includes detailing the vagus nerve’s role in, for example, heart health and social engagement. Fredrickson’s research suggests that positive emotions increase a person’s perception of social connection, which in turn increases vagal tone, an indicator of physical health.

Energetically, emotions such as joy, serenity, and love reflect a state of being in which a person’s life force (pranachiki) is flowing fully and freely. Emotions such as anger and fear reflect a situation in which life energy is stuck and unbalanced — too much in one place, not enough in another.

Deepening awareness into the belly, energizing the body’s center with movement and breath, activates the hara as our central powerhouse. Our body’s center serves us as a dynamo, generously pulsing life energy through our whole body and being.

With our hara-powered life force flowing fully and freely, we’re susceptible to feeling all kinds of positive emotions. Chances are that we and our lives will flourish.

For that, for the dynamo of life energy centered in our bellies, I’m grateful.

5 Comments leave one →
  1. Admirer permalink
    July 7, 2015 7:47 pm

    A very interesting article which I can testify as true with experience.
    Today, after judo class we went to swimming pool and a girl among us, also with a heavy weight, she’s 5’49” and weighs 220 lbs, was sitting down in seiza and cross legged.
    In that moment she represented the “buddhity”…a so perfect position, incredibly stable, impassible, with sun brighting the face…she seemed a divinity monument and incredible beauty, although western “values” would say the opposite.
    She sat down so for about 20 minutes, maybe meditating and nothing could distract her.
    A concentrate of thoughtfulness, stability and strength….she is also very good in judo and quick with feet, despite the appearance of weight…as if it wasn’t so.
    She wore a bikini and so it was possible to see very clearly her belly pushing out at every breath and after every breath and as her belly expanded, she looked even more stable and serene….wonderful example.


  2. July 8, 2015 2:41 pm

    I appreciate your sharing this story! The story gives me the impression that this woman has been strengthening her hara as she’s been practicing judo.


  3. Admirer permalink
    July 8, 2015 5:45 pm

    yes…surely. In every move she’s very centered in her hara/tanden, so she can also surprisingly move herself quicker than many males and she can throw many of them easily, without being unbalanced.
    In judo they teach us to breathe from the belly, inflating it as much as possible, keeping it full of air and round as much time as possible….and then relaxing.
    And every move, in judo, to be perfect, has to start from the hara region…so, with no doubts, it has to be very strengthened.


  4. July 14, 2015 2:07 pm

    Love the chase story AND the tips for strengthening brain positivity. AND breathing those positive energies down to the belly, yes, happy belly!


  5. July 14, 2015 2:57 pm

    Thanks for your comment. Neuroscience is such a hot topic these days. Seems the new technologies for neural imaging are relating happenings in the cranial brain to everything from brushing our teeth to tying our shoelaces.

    I look forward to technologies that show how happenings in the gut brain — the enteric nervous system — influence the details of our well-being.


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